Life-minded:  helping the transition from floundering to flourishing and a life well-lived.
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An end to anxiety, fear and worry! 

Why not aim to do more with than just get your metaphorical head above water? Does the idea of a transition from floundering to flourishing appeal? 

If the quality of your life is being undermined by anxiety, fear, and worry, I know just how debilitating that is. Stress suffocates! Anxiety paralyses, and worry drains our energy.  

And the more anxious we become, the more our brain tunes into the very thought patterns that caused us distress. The more we think about them, the more our brain focuses on those neural pathways.  

Not only that, the brain also links to our memory of how we felt and brings those past feelings into the present.  Think what you often thought and you will feel how you always felt.

I can help you work with you to help you dissolve the link betweeen past events and how you felt. We cannot delete thoughts, but we can change to thoughts and feelings we would rather have instead.

If you want to move your state from floundering to flourishing, it’s easier than you may think.

Why not ask me how I use best practices from the latest developments in neuroscience, psychology, anthropology and philosophy to empower you for a life well-lived? An initial consultation is free.

Check out what my clients have to say.

Not only do I provide you with effective support, it won’t take very many sessions before you’re feeling much better about life and how to live it. 


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Book your free-no obligation initial consultation now

Everyone is entitled to peace of mind.
If you are seeking clarity, confidence and want to defuse fears and anxiety, and develop the mind set you need to be the person you need to be.  

Let me demonstrate how to diminish anxiety quickly and effectively, so you can flourish and live life to the full, instead of being under the control of ingrained ways of thinking and feeling.

Want proof? Give yourself a current score out of 10 for how you feel right now. Say, 5/10.  Close your eyes, take a few steady deep breaths and go back in time to a high point in your life. Focus on that for 30-40 seconds and really associate fully to it. Keep breathing slowly and deeply. Now, how do you feel? Score out of 10?  7/10 or better? Repeat. And Repeat.  Feeling better?

Now go back in time to a difficult and challenging time.  Just for 30 seconds. How to you feel? 3/10? Now change to your hight point and repeat what you did for that.  Did you notice how quickly your feelings can change when the mind focuses on different events?
Proven, effective and rapid ways to deal with a range of issues...

Many therapists focus on a toolkit for specific issues. I don't. I focus on you. Not on a technique to apply unthinkingly.


I make sure that I understand the type of issue that is challenging you. Please note that I do NOT need to know the details.


You know what happened and you know how you feel about that.


So this makes your issue totally confidential to you and only you.


And it won't be difficult to help you change from how you always felt to how you would rather feel instead.


So have a look at the list below. What do all the following have in common?


They all comprise a combination of events and associated feelings. We can't change the event. But we can do something about the link to the associated feeling. And that's why what I do is different.


  • Traumatic Events, including PTSD
  • Bullying in the Workplace/Community
  • Toxic Relationships
  • Anxiety, Stress and Worry
  • Religious Indoctrination
  • Fears and Phobias
  • Low Confidence Levels

 

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